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De weduwnaar 失去才懂得珍惜

如果妳有想要做的事情就做,要享受活著的每一天,因為你永遠不會知道下一分鐘會發生什麼事。
 
人生可能會有一種理由讓你無法完成你想要做事情,但是當妳真想做的時候,一個理由就夠了,如果錯過了,以後一定會後悔!
 
妳離開以後

Appreciate

Sometimes I felt so tired. Both working and studying made my time full. It’s a challenge to me. I always think if I can study earlier. I can’t so tired and busy now. But it’s too late.
Recently to him, my feeling will lower than before. My mind don’t affect by him so much. I transfer my focus to other thing. Just need few months even of few weeks. Pass so many things and meet so many people. I was still into him. We were impossible forever. Base on the only reason. I forced myself. If I want to resolve the problem I think the fastest and effective in fighting my depressed emotion's way. First of all, I need to lie to my mind. Second of all, I must pretend my heart. Third of all, I should ignore him. Unless the meeting or job talking. Otherwise I need to reduce the eye-contact times and one-to-one talking’s chance.
I really appreciate nobody knew my secret. Because of I often heard some bad news about him. Maybe it’s true. But I don’t want to prove it. It’s not my point anymore.

最容易說一套做一套的星座

太陽代表人格特質,水星代表思考模式以及如何表達自己的意思。

第5名  天秤座

    天秤座之所以會表裡不一,通常是在他要維持人際關係和諧的時候,
    這時他不會把他心裡面真正想講的事情講出來。於是你容易覺得他很做作,
    很假仙,即使他不住高雄縣甲仙鄉。

第4名  處女座

    處女座的情感表達方式比較撐忍,即使他心裡面很愛慕你或很喜歡你,
    但是他不會把他真實的話講出來。如果他遇到喜歡的人,他就會變成冰棒美人,
    或者是冰山國王。他必須要常常表達出自己的情感,對方才能知道他的想法。

第3名  射手座

    射手座表面上看起來熱力四射,而私底下可能比較緘默,這是他的特質。
    然而射手座有個很要不得的現象,因為他理想性比較高,
    他會告訴他的家人或是合作夥伴自己構築的夢想。他常常用嘴巴感染別人,
    可是他的行動力往往會讓別人打上很大的問號。

第2名  天蠍座

    你千萬不能得罪天蠍座,他是最不能被得罪的人。
    如果你跟他有發生過不愉快的事情,或是你故意弄他,他會放在心裡,
    等到有朝一日如果他有機會跟你並駕齊驅,或是爬到你上面的時候,你就慘了。

第1名  魔羯座

    魔羯座對於追求事業跟社會地位的野心,不是一般人可以了解的,
    所以他想賺的錢都是大錢,他想買的房子都是豪宅,他想要位居高權或當CEO。
    而且他不會把他的慾望講出來,他會鴨子滑水,你也不要把他當成吳下阿蒙。
    如果你有魔羯座的同事或下屬,你一定要敬他3分。因為如果你對不起他的話,
    他會OS那就不要有一天讓他爬起來,到時他就會把你幹掉。

Balance

I don’t know why. When I join sc the teacher is him. I was a bit happy. Maybe I can transfer my focus to him. For me he just an imagination. But it will transform one guy to another guy. I think it’s better for me.
And I felt went to WSI. Definitely I knew many countries thoughts and cultures. Especially today he wants us. To rank values. I find too many things. I don’t think before. I knew inane feeling come with me all day. Only one solution is giving up key person or thing. I just can be happier.
You are the queen. You can do it. Keep going.

Misunderstand

In the past, I still think all of guy’s mistakes. Now I don’t think so. If you always wait the chance come. Maybe you will lose the most important key. Sometimes his talks or behaviors make you feel happy or confuse. Actually you were wasted time making excuses for a dead-end relationship. But you lied yourself. Because he uses mixed words then make you confused. Now you need to wake up. Getting yourself much confidence. If he doesn’t say some words, such as "Relationship", "Boyfriend", "like" or "into you". You don’t need to sad. Just ask yourself, you can encourage yourself say it. If you can do it you must really into him. If you can’t do it you just find new guy. It’s better for you. Don’t waste your time.
Time is money.

Be a Queen

Today I had a friend told me. You must be smarter then before. I stood at life’s intersection. Which ending is depending on my decision? Actually I knew his hint. I don’t know how can I do then I just can make a good and right decision. In this moment I need to protect myself. Using my power depend all of things that hurts me. I must adjust my emotion. Be a rational queen. Nothing can make me feel depressed or get any sadness. Because of I am a queen. Even though anybody or anything will not be hurt me. I couldn’t let anybody do it.

Depressed

Today I joined cmc, I felt so terrible. Why? Because compared other students and me, I really was so bad. Whether my speaking, grammars abilities were so terrible. When can I speak as well as others? How can I find right way to improve my English? Unless I am come to WSI more often and reading more articles. Thinking used to English thinks. Speaking and writing are focus on grammar. What else can I do? I want to speaking voice and tone very similar as native foreigner. I plan spend 2 years to study English. I hope I can dream will come true.
This afternoon I came to elite bookstore. I read ‘He is not just into you’. I found so many situations were closer mine. So I can sure one thing. That is he doesn’t really into me. The worst situation, it is all of my imagination. No hint no special thing between us. All of things just I thought too much.

The end

Until now, I still can’t ignore my feeling to him. But it’s the truth. I thought it’s better for me. I need to change my focus. Because our interaction was reduce to almost zero. Before vacation I really was felt feeling back to him. But now it’s totally different from before. Maybe I made some mistakes with him. I can pretend I don’t care anything and guy. Even we became strangers. In my life, I lack emotion. I am afraid I become a robot. No emotion no feeling. Just working and learning. I don’t want

職場上最契合的上司和下屬星座組合

第3名  牡羊座上司  VS  魔羯座下屬

    牡羊座在外面衝衝衝,喜歡去打仗、協調事情,或者是出頭去談事情。
    牡羊座性子急,喜歡事情有個漂亮的結果。魔羯座屬於慢郎中,也比較溫吞,
    跟牡羊座有互補的效果。

第2名  金牛座上司  VS  巨蟹座下屬

    金牛座要的是自己要怎麼做就怎麼做,也不要什麼大場面。
    金牛座就是要穩穩的,而且要觀念跟自己一樣的員工,
    不需要員工有什麼驚世駭俗的想法,員工最好很守舊,也很正規有規矩。
    因此金牛座喜歡洗腦別人,如果遇到觀念不合的人,
    就會覺得金牛座真是囉嗦死了!真是固執!巨蟹座很能體諒人,尤其是長輩,
    而且也有先後、長幼有序的觀念,領對方薪水就會為對方敲鐘,
    並且很維護自己人。金牛座會喜歡巨蟹座這種很聽話,又很為自己著想的員工。

第1名  天秤座上司  VS  雙子座下屬

    這2個風象星座還蠻合的,不要看天秤座笑笑的像好人,
    事實上天秤座的事業心很強,非常有開拓的想法,也有企業化經營的概念。
    雙子座本身企圖心沒那麼強,通常雙子座喜歡用打帶跑戰術,
    所以比較喜歡有想法的主管。雙子座覺得既然對方有想法,那就跟著對方。
    而且天秤座很照顧下面的人,雙子座很念舊,所以就莫名其妙地非常契合。

Distance

I find he gets far and far to me. I don’t know the reason. Just become quickly. If I can meet another guy I must forget him. I try to take account of his feeling. Because the organization is changing he is getting big pressure. But I still don’t know. My ability doesn’t make me to become his useful assistant. It’s my fault.
I blessed to god before. But I thought it was enough. Why? I fallen my heart with him. I am really into him. I can’t change my thinking. I can’t do that.
I knew. My 2009 revolution is impossible. I don’t desire get the happy ending. I just want to get more and more sadness from him. I met him everyday. I can’t avoid the feeling upgrade. I wish we can come back to before. The timing is stranger relationship. I don’t know him and he doesn’t know me. We are just two strangers. Time will come to Jan 22nd, 2007 ago.
Can you listen to my voice?

Bon anniversaire

Today is his Joyeux anniversaire. We celebrated to him at 12 o’clock. But he was so busy and has another date. And there were so many coworkers in there. He doesn’t care who was in there. Because I have en at 6 o’clock so I need to leave earlier. I want to say Bon anniversaire to him. When I encourage my bravery then walk into his office. He didn’t stay inside. I felt so sad. I told to myself. Don’t worry that just means we don’t have any positive development. Finally I went to take bus to WSI. Suddenly he walked from opposite to me. I felt very surprised and nervous. I just say bye-bye to you. Suddenly I remembered the most important thing. I called him. I said I needed to talk one thing to you. He became a little serious. I just said happy birthday. Then I turned back to across the traffic light quickly. Eventually I said the word to him by myself. It’s so happy.
 
Another happiest thing was my EN24 continued. The teacher was handsome and charming. And he didn’t repeat me. I can go continue to next level. Congratulations to me.

The Curious Case of Benjamin Button

生命,從此與眾不同。
生命的意義、真摯的愛、
追尋與渴望、擁有與失落……
一切人生的體悟,盡在這本扣人心弦的小說之中!

當時間的河流不再平順
擦肩而過的我們 又將在何處再次交錯……

Are you the exception.....or are you the rule?

Sometimes the feeling was came back but often left me away. How often can give me much happy? Can I trust my six the sense? Or just let it go? Don’t want to control unavailable thing. But I am still into you. Do you know? Actually I want to say such as her. Although I couldn’t get any feedback but also I don’t want to regret. When you ask me a few private things I need to happy. Because you take care of me, right?

職場上雙面人的星座TOP5(參考太陽跟水星)

水星代表人溝通的方式,也代表腦子裡想事情的方法,職場上水星影響比較多,
    沒上榜的人其實也有潛力。

第5名  雙子座

    其實雙子座非常聰明(不過也有真笨的),就看他懶不懶而已。如果他勤勞一點,
    只要他隨便拿出一點小聰明就鬥死你了。通常他如果不是懶,就是不想跟你鬥。
    然而如果你讓他存心想跟你鬥,或是他為了往上爬,而必須使用到他的小聰明,
    那他當然就會想盡辦法,這種情況下的他很能夠兩面人,因為他的手腕很靈巧。

第4名  水瓶座

    水瓶座的雙面人比較隱形,但是他很現實,不要懷疑。當你有利用價值的時候,
    他會對你很好。當然有一些水瓶座如果你跟他沒有利害關係,他很熱心,
    跟他做朋友你會覺得他很好。但如果你跟他有利害關係,
    你就會感受到比較多的人情冷暖,而覺得他是雙面人。

第3名  雙魚座

    雙魚座永遠會面面俱到,很會做人。而且他不會懶,不像雙子座有時候會懶。
    雙魚座永遠把事情做得很漂亮,把話說得很冠冕堂皇。他這樣其實沒什麼錯,
    錯在他都是有盤算的,有目的性的,他會放長線釣大魚。
    水瓶座會在你們彼此確定不合作或是沒有利害關係的時候,放棄了,
    但是雙魚座會試圖在你身上努力,然後你就會慢慢發現他的目的,
    他的服務不是不要錢的,是要錢的,後面你要付出代價。他會先讓你上癮,
    讓你先習慣他的好處,之後再從你身上大撈一筆。

第2名  魔羯座

    魔羯座分2種,畢竟他是土星在管,有些魔羯座會把自己的姿態擺得很低,
    很謙虛。但是有些魔羯座覺得他已經媳婦熬成婆了,已經高高在上,
    他自認為是一哥或一姐。因為他要做人,表面上他一定要和和氣氣的,
    然而私底下,他會叫他的部下把你幹掉,剷除異己。他會受不了,
    因為他覺得你不懂遊戲規則,他特別喜歡剷除不懂遊戲規則的人。
    這種魔羯座你可以看得出來,如果他表面上話都講得很漂亮,那就是了。
    他表面上會跟你交好,但是你最好小心一點。

第1名  天秤座

    天秤座遇強則強,遇弱則弱。除非你跟他很熟,才會知道他所有的想法。
    如果你跟他不熟,你永遠只能看到他很友善的那一面,所以你覺得他是雙面人。

Headache all day

When he tells me I need to write an article for the topic. I felt got so big pressure. Because of write an article I need to spend so much time. And today I got headache all day. I finished my cmc then I upstairs to do my eol. But I can’t concrete my mind. I always think about that thing. And my headache was so heavy. I spend almost 4 hours to think about the article. And strange thing will happen. When I finished my article my headache was disappear. It’s so increasable. Tomorrow I will see him. His birthday will come. How can I do? Can I send a card to him? Or say “happy birthday to you.” And that day I have an en. I will take leave. This year I wish I can face to him. Then I say happy birthday to you. It’s my 2009 one of wishes.

打造不疲勞生活的聰明方法

時常聽到有人大聲喊著,生活好疲勞。而什麼是疲勞呢?它就是身體生病前的SOS訊號!而解決疲勞的方法,不僅是減緩緊湊的生活步調,減輕生活壓力,但最重要的關鍵還是自己的態度。
 
一直以來,我始終認為,忙碌與疲勞是劃上等號。上班日與周休假期的忙碌,讓我感到倦怠與不耐,心底總是奢望著,如果一天有36小時,該有多好!直到我看了《不疲勞的生活》才恍然大悟,真正的疲累,不是來自於外在環境,或是生活,疲勞是來自於內心。我試了幾招書裡的方法,舉凡像是「說聲謝謝」、「親近大自然」或是「保有好奇心」等方法後,我才明白,要打造快樂生活真的很簡單,只要身體力行,找回power真的非難事。
 
也有朋友問我,悠閒生活是否就能保證不疲勞?其實並不然,因為全無壓力的生活,也會造成倦怠。疲勞就像個影子,無論是上緊發條ON的日子,或是享受假期OFF的日子,它總是時時刻刻跟在你我的身邊,呼之即來卻又揮之不去。
 
而儘管全球金融海嘯襲擊,社會環境動盪,多數人憂心著「下個明天」的到來,與其害怕未來,還不如珍惜現在,放下心中的大石,甩開內心無形的壓力,重新ON / OFF自己的生活,你將發現,生活充滿活力,身體擁有能量,從此疲勞不停留。

Fluently

Recently when I talk to other students I find my speaking is not bad. Sometimes even I can’t do well. But I believe if I spend much time to practice. I must do best.
Why I can concrete on English. Maybe I just want to avoid work pressure. And ignore something happened in my work life. Because of in there I can see another me. It’s my life’s power. It makes me has energy then I can get my goal.

Clear

Today we even said a word. Even I feel sad but I need to use to it. In the future I must get this feeling everyday. If I don’t want to hurt my mind I need to ignore him. How difficult for me. He said he doesn’t want to find a wife. He just wants to meet an ideal girl. We stay together all day but I can’t see him or talk to him. When I decided forget him. In the point time, there was always happen something to change all of my feeling. In the short time, the feeling will be gone. Because of he’s not into me.
Today it was my second EN24. I got repeated again. So bad. But I thought he wanted me learned more and more. I could feel he thought about few minutes. Finally he said “sorry, Karen. You need to repeat.” But I thought it’s good for me. I need to study hard and more. Then work less and relax.
I hope I can get rid out of all about his memory. Ignore my feeling. Every time I told to myself. But I always don’t do it. Why?

Unfair

When I saw the office’s seat view I felt unfair. Even I changed to another department again. But my work ages still longer than other people. Why am I sitting first row. I felt unfair. They don’t have right to decide anything. I really much disappointed.

Maybe last year I made a totally wrong decision. Why I stayed in here? Make me felt setback about all of things. There were including relationship, work and future life. I really regret. Do less and less then study hard and hard. I believe I can run out of here in the shortest time. I hate them.

Am I the exception.....or am I the rule?

Today I saw a new movie. It called “He's Just Not That into you”. There were so many stories of a group of twenty and thirty various relationships. To brings some impacts for me. I suddenly felt own a bright future. Compared with her I didn’t accept so many and a large setback. I just experienced a little setback. I believe I can get a pink relationship.
This afternoon I didn’t know why he told that. Was he kidding or serious? Sometimes I confused and sometimes I mistaken. So the feeling which is right or wrong? How can I control my thinking? I don’t want to think too much. But I always do it. Trust my six the sense or believe my eye catching.