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don't write me offIt's never been easy for me to
find words that go along with a melody. But this time ther's actually something on my mind, so please forgive these few brief awkward lines. Since I've met you, my whole life has changed, it's not just my furniture you've rearranged. I was living the past, but somehow you've brought me back. And I haven't felt like this since before Frankie said, "Relax!" And now I know, based on my track record, I might not seem like the safest bet. All I'm asking you, is don't write me off just yet. For years I've been telling myself the same old story, that I'm happy to live off my so called former glories But you've given me a reason to take another chance. Now I need you, despite the fact that you've killed all my plants. And though I know, I've already blown more chances than anyone should ever get. All I'm asking you is, don't write me off just yet. Don't write me off just yet. music and lyricsI've been living with a shadow overhead I've been sleeping with a cloud above my bed I've been lonely for so long Trapped in the past, I just can't seem to move on I've been hiding all my hopes and dreams away Just in case I ever need em again someday I've been setting aside time To clear a little space in the corners of my mind All I want to do is find a way back into love I can't make it through without a way back into love Oh oh oh I've been watching but the stars refuse to shine I've been searching but I just don't see the signs I know that it's out there There's got to be something for my soul somewhere I've been looking for someone to shed some light Not just somebody just to get me throught the night I could use some direction And I'm open to your suggestions All I want to do is find a way back into love I can't make it through without a way back into love And if I open my heart again I guess I'm hoping you'll be there for me in the end There are moments when I don't know if it's real Or if anybody feels the way I feel I need inspiration Not just another negotiation All I want to do is find a way back into love I can't make it through without a way back into love And if I open my heart to you I'm hoping you'll show me what to do And if you help me to start again You know that I'll be there for you in the end 勇於認錯沒有犯錯的人，是打安全牌的人，是不敢冒險的人，也不願意自己思考的人，是不投入的人，也是太在意自己的人。
我常常說，錯誤是個表相，要深究的不是錯誤本身，而是為什麼犯錯？中間的思路與邏輯是什麼？甚至抱著什麼樣的情感？這才是值得討論的重點。等到深入探討自己的想法之後，通常錯誤不會發生第二次，而人也從中間學習與成長，這樣才真正在工作、在生活！
不過，通常，我們犯了錯，第一個反應就是：這不是我的錯....。然後找一大堆理由解釋，等到不得不承認錯誤之後，又覺得很丟臉，甚至惱羞成怒﹔或者很擔心被其他人知道。然後走路想，睡覺也想，很是後悔做錯了事，於是「早知道，就...」又編出一大堆話來。
討論事情也是一樣，如果自己的意見不如人，就說：沒有好壞啦，看用什麼角度來看而已。寫文章不及格，就說：文章沒有標準，只是剛好不合乎你品味而已。種種理由，都是指向一件事情，面子比事實重要，自我強化比成長還重要。
我看見一個主動成長的人，通常討論事情時，不太會想到自己，甚至忘掉自己了。他不怕自己的意見愚蠢，也不怕被人笑，他的重點一直放在討論的事情上面，根本不在乎別人怎麼想他。反之，另一種人，第一個想到的事情就是：別人會怎麼看我？也因為如此，一直保護自己，將自己堅固地包裝起來，於是，外面的事情，很難進入，因此他不會有成長。
每個人都以為自己有學習能力，其實不然，太多人已經停止成長而不自知。真的要學習的話，必須先忘記自己。不信的話，你自己試試看就知道了。 知道自己很難過一直努力去完成
卻始終無法達到理想
當初的選擇沒有錯
只是
近來
會想著也許時間點是七月
這種感覺
就像往事重演
令人心痛與無奈
不該是你的
就不要去強求
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